It’s been a while since my last post. It’s not that I haven’t been thinking about topics to share. I just haven’t had time lately to write any of them down. I’ve been busy making progress on some pretty significant things on my “to do” list that have been there for quite some time!
There always seems to be so many things that I wish I could wave a magic wand and make happen, but that’s not reality. It can be overwhelming sometimes, especially thinking about the bigger things or things that seem not all that realistic. It’s hard to take that initial first step towards whatever desired outcome, but sometimes doing that and then finding a way to keep putting one foot in front of the other, even if they are baby steps, will get the job done. Often times, once the ball is rolling, it builds momentum and just can’t stop. That’s definitely been the case in my life lately…one good thing leading to another for the most part, with a few ups and downs in the mix.
That’s not always the case though, and it can be very tempting to throw in the towel, so to speak. This can be especially true when it comes to parenting and working on relationships. Lately, I seem to keep coming across all kinds of reminders about the importance of not giving up, including the graphic at the top of this post and this one as well…
Another quote I’ve seen a few times is … When a child learns to walk and falls down 50 times, he never thinks to himself: “Maybe this isn’t for me?” Kids don’t typically think about things like failure and disappointment as much as adults do. They want something and will do what it takes to get it. Sometimes our minds get the best of us and hold us back from doing all that we can and being all that we can be. It’s too bad we can’t think more like kids sometimes, or rather not think about and analyze everything. We need to remember that we can’t always wait for the right or best time to do things, setting goals is important, we can’t be afraid to take the first steps towards those goals, we’ll most likely run into obstacles along the way, it’s OK to ask for help, and that failure is OK. I like Kid President’s quote… ”If at first you don’t succeed, you’re normal.” We just need to find a way to get started and then keep going, even if it means putting aside our fears.
For me personally, I sometimes get stuck in a rut thinking about all the things I can’t do, but as soon as I change my mindset to thinking about what I CAN do, then I start getting somewhere because I become more likely to take risks instead of playing it safe. Sometimes confidence can be a key factor in our successes. Thinking outside the box often helps, too. Finding a way around an obstacle, a different way of doing or approaching something, a fresh idea, or a new perspective can be the spark of excitement that becomes a catalyst for making good progress towards a goal or desired outcome. It’s all in how we think about it, really.
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