This is so true, but it’s something we sometimes need to remind ourselves and each other. Nothing in life is ever perfect, so if we are always waiting for the exact right time to do or say something, it may never come. And if we are always waiting until we are certain of a particular outcome or how someone else is thinking or feeling, we may lose out as well. There are countless other things like job opportunities and fun adventures that could pass us right by while we are waiting until a better time. Life is a whole lot shorter than we think it is though, so the time is now.
I am speaking to myself as much as anyone reading this. It is difficult sometimes to think beyond what we need to accomplish in a day, get out of our comfort zone, and have the confidence to try something new or maybe something we haven’t done in a long time or take a chance on something or someone. But if we don’t, we may regret not doing so down the road. Sometimes it’s fear of change, fear of failure, or fear of the unknown that gets in our way. Other times it may be lack of confidence or experience or any number of other things. Whatever it is, we need to find the inspiration or motivation to get past those negative thoughts and push ourselves in the direction we would like to see ourselves. We can’t just let life happen. We need to make it happen.
It could be just a matter of a change in perspective that will help. Instead of focusing on what we can’t or won’t be able to do, reminding ourselves of what we are capable of doing and surrounding ourselves with people who will back us up on those thoughts can be helpful. Sometimes we just need to dig deep and muster up the courage to either take a few baby steps or a giant leap forward and not look back.
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